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speech and deportment

建设网站day2

下午打了拳,其实效果不太好,我指的是打拳的体能。

但这一周,小贝中午回家,我比以往忙一些,下午能和前几年一样在家锻炼,我就想,是不是前几个月是没有平衡好。把之前的❄️一次性变成了雪崩?

做网站的过程中,有各种的问题。

一个一个解决吧。

肯定和鼓励永远比打压让人有生存的意义。

今天用手机热点连接的时候,网站一直连不上,不知道是不是因为没有发布需要固定ip的原因?

没动力和顺天意

我发现思路打开:

  • 孩子们没有动力,没有目标是十分正常的,是可以被接受和理解的,他们也不必为此收到指责和自责,我们能做的真的只能是和他们一起重新找到自己的定位。在什么地方他们能做的更好。
  • 我们这么努力生存,念书工作,为了维持我们的目标,是我们父母尽力了,却没有办法做到我们需要的目标。特别是你,拼命赚钱,为了生存,为了家庭生活的更好,也是为了实现我们的目标,是为了满足我们的存在价值,这是我们自己给自己的动力。也是我们父母留给我们的缺口,这个缺口不完全是社会造成的,也是我们自己可以掌握的,有时候也是不得不面对的,当然,社会的进步也是这样的趋势。
  1. 所以我们要努力,也要维持当下家庭和睦关系,家庭成员的稳定,不要为了拼命挣钱而放弃维持家庭个人生活和睦的时机,陪伴是最好的良药
  2. 我们尽力了,没有实现的物质上的目标不正好是他们孩子们需要靠自己努力去实现的动力和目标吗?就如同我们父母留给我们的一样,如果我们全都实现了,他们的动力,留给他们的空间就会越来越少。所以我觉得我们尽力保证他们当下的衣食,喂饱他们精神世界,才是最重要的。
  3. 提前给他们留太多的物质基础,看起来是在为他们着想,其实是剥夺了孩子们以后存在的价值和生存的意义,所以年轻人的自杀率才越来越高。给他们适当的物质保障,但是要留给他们奋斗的缺口。授之于鱼不如授之于渔。
  4. 所以,我们应该做的就是,尽力去做,但是是要维持整体家庭合睦的前提下。在家庭和睦和经济能力相冲突的时候,优先选择家庭合睦,留下经济的缺口,刚好是留给孩子奋斗的目标,是他们需要努力实现的。

我不知道我是不是描述清楚了。

  • 顺天意:即便孩子们和家人们都不需要我了,也不是我来到这个世界的目的,我来到这个世界,我出生,的确就是天意,好好活着,顺天意。

建设网站第一天

走出去,走出去

好的开始是成功的一半。

今天晚上选择了一个blog模版,忽然发现可以从宝塔直接链接到wp了。

我还一直在找是要有什么按钮打个包上传。

但是仍然只能在本机访问,估计还要等管局审批通过,博客类还需要在公安部备案。

等到能正式上线还要一段时间。

打开看看

试试看

我们来试试看,这些功能有什么不同?

测试1:段落区块,现在输入的是段落区块

测试1:段落区块,现在输入的是段落区块

填写诗篇部分

段落是最好加的部分,栏目添加以后怎么实现?

在睡觉的猫咪

测试填写诗篇的功能

测试区块样本

复古丘比特图

Shore with Blue Sea

Eleanor Harris (American, 1901-1942)

A green and brown rural landscape leading into a bright blue ocean and slightly cloudy sky, done in oil paints.
ECOSYSTEM

Positive growth.

Nature, in the common sense, refers to essences unchanged by man; space, the air, the river, the leaf. Art is applied to the mixture of his will with the same things, as in a house, a canal, a statue, a picture.

But his operations taken together are so insignificant, a little chipping, baking, patching, and washing, that in an impression so grand as that of the world on the human mind, they do not vary the result.

The sun setting through a dense forest.
Wind turbines standing on a grassy plain, against a blue sky.
The sun shining over a ridge leading down into the shore. In the distance, a car drives down a road.

Undoubtedly we have no questions to ask which are unanswerable. We must trust the perfection of the creation so far, as to believe that whatever curiosity the order of things has awakened in our minds, the order of things can satisfy. Every man’s condition is a solution in hieroglyphic to those inquiries he would put.

Close-up, abstract view of geometric architecture.
Close-up, angled view of a window on a white building.
Close-up of the corner of a white, geometric building with both sharp points and round corners.
ECOSYSTEM

Positive growth.

Nature, in the common sense, refers to essences unchanged by man; space, the air, the river, the leaf. Art is applied to the mixture of his will with the same things, as in a house, a canal, a statue, a picture.

But his operations taken together are so insignificant, a little chipping, baking, patching, and washing, that in an impression so grand as that of the world on the human mind, they do not vary the result.

The sun setting through a dense forest.
Wind turbines standing on a grassy plain, against a blue sky.
The sun shining over a ridge leading down into the shore. In the distance, a car drives down a road.

Undoubtedly we have no questions to ask which are unanswerable. We must trust the perfection of the creation so far, as to believe that whatever curiosity the order of things has awakened in our minds, the order of things can satisfy. Every man’s condition is a solution in hieroglyphic to those inquiries he would put.

Beautiful photomechanical prints of White Irises (1887-1897) by Ogawa Kazumasa. Original from The Rijksmuseum.

White Irises

Ogawa Kazumasa

Cherry Blossom

Ogawa Kazumasa

Beautiful photomechanical prints of Cherry Blossom (1887-1897) by Ogawa Kazumasa. Original from The Rijksmuseum.
Close-up, abstract view of geometric architecture.
Close-up, angled view of a window on a white building.
Close-up of the corner of a white, geometric building with both sharp points and round corners.
Close-up, abstract view of geometric architecture.
Close-up, angled view of a window on a white building.
Close-up of the corner of a white, geometric building with both sharp points and round corners.

Cupid in Flight
48” x 48” Giclee print on archival paper.

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